Comments on: Walking away http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/ Wed, 10 Mar 2010 22:00:37 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Beth http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/comment-page-1/#comment-5664 Beth Tue, 18 Sep 2007 11:58:34 +0000 http://www.piecesofe.com/?p=192#comment-5664 I'm glad you are finally seeing it E. It won't be easy, but you need to move on. He doesn't deserve you. He can't see all the good things you did for him, cause they far outweigh the bad. I know, I used to be one of David's biggest supporters, but he has shown his true colors. He's not willing to grow up. The fact that he keeps stringing you along, just shows what kind of a person he is. If he really did want it to work, he'd be trying, not pushing you away. He's being mean and nasty and you don't deserve to keep fighting for someone who treats you that way. You WILL find someone who is right for you, but for now, use this time to find yourself. You are already on your way to doing that. Sometimes being alone for a while is the best thing we can do for ourselves. I know, I got out of a relationship (if you can call it that) with a user (you're right La, my user had a hard time keeping friends cause he didn't understand that friends take commitment and time too). Hang in there... I won't say keep smoking, but right now, you do what you got to do to get by. Just remember why it is you quit in the first place and you'll get there again. Love you (even though you don't return my calls when I'm worried about you). I’m glad you are finally seeing it E. It won’t be easy, but you need to move on. He doesn’t deserve you. He can’t see all the good things you did for him, cause they far outweigh the bad. I know, I used to be one of David’s biggest supporters, but he has shown his true colors. He’s not willing to grow up. The fact that he keeps stringing you along, just shows what kind of a person he is. If he really did want it to work, he’d be trying, not pushing you away. He’s being mean and nasty and you don’t deserve to keep fighting for someone who treats you that way. You WILL find someone who is right for you, but for now, use this time to find yourself. You are already on your way to doing that. Sometimes being alone for a while is the best thing we can do for ourselves. I know, I got out of a relationship (if you can call it that) with a user (you’re right La, my user had a hard time keeping friends cause he didn’t understand that friends take commitment and time too). Hang in there… I won’t say keep smoking, but right now, you do what you got to do to get by. Just remember why it is you quit in the first place and you’ll get there again. Love you (even though you don’t return my calls when I’m worried about you).

]]> By: Tracy http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/comment-page-1/#comment-5665 Tracy Fri, 14 Sep 2007 13:44:19 +0000 http://www.piecesofe.com/?p=192#comment-5665 I too am so happy to see that you are at the next stage, where you can accept things and realize that you WILL survive and CAN move on to better things; I know how difficult it has been, but the worst is behind you, you have to believe that and you will see it is true. Say goodbye and start living your life to the BEST of your ability. And I agree - get rid of the smokes!!!! An occasional glass of wine I approve of (it is good for you a little!) but cigarettes???!!! Come on! For someone who is SO health conscious (you buy free-range chicken for Christ's sake!), you of all people should be smarter than that!!! Okay, there's my lecture ... keep happy!!! I too am so happy to see that you are at the next stage, where you can accept things and realize that you WILL survive and CAN move on to better things; I know how difficult it has been, but the worst is behind you, you have to believe that and you will see it is true. Say goodbye and start living your life to the BEST of your ability. And I agree – get rid of the smokes!!!! An occasional glass of wine I approve of (it is good for you a little!) but cigarettes???!!! Come on! For someone who is SO health conscious (you buy free-range chicken for Christ’s sake!), you of all people should be smarter than that!!! Okay, there’s my lecture … keep happy!!!

]]> By: Kristina http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/comment-page-1/#comment-5666 Kristina Thu, 13 Sep 2007 21:14:02 +0000 http://www.piecesofe.com/?p=192#comment-5666 YOU GO GIRL! I have been waiting for so long to hear those words come out of your mouth. I have always known what a beautiful stong woman you are and known that you only deserve the best. I am glad you are finally realizing that. I love you so much and only want the best for you. Whether it is with David or not....which you know my opinion on that...you will make it. I am so proud of you!!!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GIRL! I have been waiting for so long to hear those words come out of your mouth. I have always known what a beautiful stong woman you are and known that you only deserve the best. I am glad you are finally realizing that.

I love you so much and only want the best for you. Whether it is with David or not….which you know my opinion on that…you will make it.

I am so proud of you!!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: La http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/comment-page-1/#comment-5668 La Thu, 13 Sep 2007 20:24:06 +0000 http://www.piecesofe.com/?p=192#comment-5668 Someone comes after you and God help them and David- they have seen nothing yet. It does suprise me some that he has friends- users usually don't! And all I can say is AMEN- I won't my happy, beautiful, talented niece back- and noone but you can make that happen. The great part is- when you get you back- other great things will happen- trust me, trust your family, trust God. Talk to you soon. Someone comes after you and God help them and David- they have seen nothing yet. It does suprise me some that he has friends- users usually don’t!
And all I can say is AMEN- I won’t my happy, beautiful, talented niece back- and noone but you can make that happen. The great part is- when you get you back- other great things will happen- trust me, trust your family, trust God.
Talk to you soon.

]]> By: Mom http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/comment-page-1/#comment-5667 Mom Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:24:25 +0000 http://www.piecesofe.com/?p=192#comment-5667 PS. Yes, you can have those things back, every one of those things and more. This time with a person who will understand commitment, promise, and selfless unconditional love. PS.
Yes, you can have those things back, every one of those things and more. This time with a person who will understand commitment, promise, and selfless unconditional love.

]]> By: Mom http://www.piecesofe.com/2007/09/13/walking-away/comment-page-1/#comment-5669 Mom Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:21:45 +0000 http://www.piecesofe.com/?p=192#comment-5669 God will open another door and you WILL find Mr. Right, and have the dreams that you aspire to Erin. I am so pleased to see that you see your value and worth... finally! You are everything you stated and more. Trust that God has a plan, and that your life will get better. Trust that you have the strength to move on. Trust that your friends and family are here to love and comfort and guide you. Trust that you are loved... really loved and cherished. I am sorry for your pain and that you have to ache so in the realization that someone you trusted and loved was a liar and a cheat and not who you thought… but... do not think of this past year as a failure, think of it as a learning experience and with learning comes enlightenment. I hope that you will also (yes here comes the lecture) not look to cigarettes or alcohol to take away the pain of what you are feeling. Stand up and say I am BETTER than what I had to live with the past year, and see that some really fantastic man is there waiting just for you. New friends are there for you...make new friends, find new hobbies, and PLEASE i beg you... PLEASE ditch the cigarettes. You have always been health conscious and you KNOW that cigarettes kill. There is nothing good in them for your body and your body needs good nutrients not chemicals and toxins, tars, and poisons. Do not make me come down there and break them. I lost two wonderful people I loved to cancer due to smoking. I would post all the harmful chemicals and tars and shit they have ... far worse than eating red meat, but i will save that for another post! I know you are sitting there rolling your eyes for this little rant, but thats my job as your mother to tell you what i think is best for you!!! (It says so on page 2 of the Parent Manual!) Cigarettes also age your skin as well as put you at risk for so many other health related illnesses. Smoking is addictive and hard to quit. Please stop. (Rant over for now!) I love you. God will open another door and you WILL find Mr. Right, and have the dreams that you aspire to Erin. I am so pleased to see that you see your value and worth… finally! You are everything you stated and more. Trust that God has a plan, and that your life will get better. Trust that you have the strength to move on. Trust that your friends and family are here to love and comfort and guide you. Trust that you are loved… really loved and cherished. I am sorry for your pain and that you have to ache so in the realization that someone you trusted and loved was a liar and a cheat and not who you thought… but… do not think of this past year as a failure, think of it as a learning experience and with learning comes enlightenment.

I hope that you will also (yes here comes the lecture) not look to cigarettes or alcohol to take away the pain of what you are feeling. Stand up and say I am BETTER than what I had to live with the past year, and see that some really fantastic man is there waiting just for you. New friends are there for you…make new friends, find new hobbies, and PLEASE i beg you… PLEASE ditch the cigarettes. You have always been health conscious and you KNOW that cigarettes kill. There is nothing good in them for your body and your body needs good nutrients not chemicals and toxins, tars, and poisons. Do not make me come down there and break them. I lost two wonderful people I loved to cancer due to smoking. I would post all the harmful chemicals and tars and shit they have … far worse than eating red meat, but i will save that for another post! I know you are sitting there rolling your eyes for this little rant, but thats my job as your mother to tell you what i think is best for you!!! (It says so on page 2 of the Parent Manual!) Cigarettes also age your skin as well as put you at risk for so many other health related illnesses. Smoking is addictive and hard to quit. Please stop. (Rant over for now!) I love you.

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